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Boost Your Loved One’s Confidence by Not Intervening in Their Decisions
Its always good to reflect back on how you talk to people and how they talk to you, to build a better communication skill over time.
I was thinking lately about an incident that occurs to me from time to time. where I don't feel comfortable sharing my opinion about a certain thing in front of certain people. but, I feel more comfortable in front of other people.
I started decomposing the situation in my head into pieces, and not to bore you with the details. I realized that I don't do that in front of the people who usually tend to correct me a lot or try to adjust my decisions with what they think makes more sense.
Then it hit me, that the people around me who I try to tell what they should choose makes sense or not (even if I say in my opinion) might tend to not feel very confident around me, because of my loud thoughts about their opinions.
What I Realized That Happens
People should not be intervening with people around them. Especially, the close ones like brothers/sisters or close friends. Because, the more you interfere with their…
